I once had a guy tell me...

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Iā€™m going on a brief hiatus - a mental health break. Until then, the asks have been turned off. See you in a bit.

I once had a guy tell me i have become the thing he hated the most: a feminist. Thank you for loving me so much, brother.

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I once had a guy tell a classmate (after she joked about wanting to forego college and marry rich) that she was “too much of a fatass to land a rich man”. This guy was our high school debate teacher.

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I once had a guy tell me he could see the women shopping in a very expensive handbag store, and that he liked to call them “marriage whores” because - his logic- they were probably all married to someone wealthy, stay at home, thus their husbands paid for the bags. (This was someone with a degree who insisted his gf marry him or there’s be no point to the relationship.)

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I once had a guy tell me that it was like a slap in the face to god when I said I wanted to get a breast reduction.

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[TW Sexual Assault]

I once had a guy tell me that my thighs were fat, but it’s okay because guys like that. He then proceeded to slap my ass.

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I’m going on a brief hiatus - a mental health break. Until then, the asks have been turned off. See you in a bit.

[TW Sexual Assault]

I once had a guy (who i thought was my friend) touch me inappropriately during a class. I told him to stop it and he just kept going and going. He would stroke inside my thighs all the way up to my breasts. I got the courage to tell the teacher and I found out that several other girls had complained too. The teacher removed him from the class and eventually was suspended.

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[TW Rape Jokes]

My boyfriend jokes about how he will rape me and also told me I should be glad that he didn’t just ‘shove it in all the way’ when we has sex for the first time.

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i once had a guy say that he thought i was ‘punishing him’ when i wouldn’t let him grope me while we were watching a movie.

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